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Off-topic / 23 Deep Questions

1. Soren

   Date: Mon, Nov 25 2013 20:43:37

   Found this somewhere and thought I would see how people would answer them. 1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid? 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust. 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not? 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say? 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not? 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? 11. Does love = sex? 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not? 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back? 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose? 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why? 18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not? 19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision? 20. Are you old fashioned? 21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? 22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why? 23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be? 24. A bonus question I came up with while reading these questions. Quantity of life and quality of life. Do you value one over the other, if so, why? Feel free to skip some questions if you do not feel comfortable answering them. My answers: [B]1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?[/B] Looking into someones eyes when they are telling me how they feel, some girl confessed to me and I was thinking I was in deep shit because I don't like her and I knew my response won't make her happy. Needless to say, she was heartbroken. [B]2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?[/B] I'm pretty relaxed, can't remember the last time I got super angry. [B]3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?[/B] I would probably call my best friend and tell him that I appreciated everything that he's done for me, and say my final goodbye but not tell him about the plane situation. Unless he can hear all the panic in the background, and if he asks then I will tell him. [B]4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?[/B] I would probably just tell me family and plan to go travelling, which is something I've always wanted to do. I would probably want to go to places like Japan, America and Switzerland. And yes, I would be very afraid. Every day that passes I would know that I am one day closer to death. And I've always thought of death as a scary thing as I don't believe in life after death. Because when you're dead you lose all your 5 sense, you can't even think, you can't even have the thought that you are dead, you just don't experience anything at all anymore. [B]5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.[/B] I would go for love, it is the most beautiful feeling you can ever experience. With love, you know that you are never truly alone. [B]6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?[/B] Won't save the dog. This may make me sound like a dick but I don't care about the dog, I don't want to get wet and I don't want to lose my job. [B]7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? [/B]Hurt by the one I trust the most. But then again, I trust the one I love the most, so this question doesn't really make much sense to me. [B]8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?[/B] If it is my girl best friend then it is hard to for me to not feel anything towards her during our friendship. So if I'm single at that moment, I would probably accept her. Since we both would already know a lot about each other, I'm sure that dating her would be very pleasant. [B]9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?[/B] The last person I know that have died is my mum's father. I reside in the UK and my parents are from Hong Kong, and I only visit Hong Kong once everyday 2-3 years for about a month or so and my parent's family are all in Hong Kong. So I've never really had a relationship with my family other than my parents and sister. Again, this sounds harsh but I would not give up one year of my life just so that my grandfather could come back for one hour. This is because I barely even spoke to the guy and he never really showed me any love. [B]10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?[/B] I don't socialise a lot so no. [B]11. Does love = sex?[/B] No, sex can be meaningless. Love is something more than just sex, I regard love as devoting your life to someone else, someone that you make happy and they make you happy in return. (that's just a simpler explanation) [B]12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?[/B] I'm going to assume that I enjoy my job and I too need the income, so no I wouldn't simply because I don't know the other person. 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? [B]14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?[/B] I do not love them back. [B]15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?[/B] My life, as it would mean the end of my existence. 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? [B]17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?[/B] Haven't made any important decisions. [B]18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?[/B] No, I am not going to put my lips onto a homeless person who probably hasn't washed in months. [B]19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?[/B] Let go of my grandmother, she's already lived a long life and is probably going to die soon anyways and as I've stated before, my grandmother feels like a stranger to me, barely even get to see them so I would probably feel more sympathy towards a newborn. The baby is innocent and has barely experienced life. [B]20. Are you old fashioned?[/B] Not sure if this refers to the way we do things or liking old things. I am very open minded so I wouldn't say I'm old fashion, in the sense that I am not conservative. If it is the other, I like modern things, I can't stand buildings with wooden furniture and olden stuff. [B]21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?[/B] I would like to think that I am generally nice to everybody. [B]22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?[/B] True love, so I can at least experience the wonders of love even if I am left with a broken heart. [B]23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?[/B] Immortality.

2. LighT*

   Date: Mon, Nov 25 2013 23:01:42

   1.) looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel because if i did something wrong, its hard knowing i hurt them and made them feel that way. 2.) i was angry last knowing that my best friend (she is family to me, ill do anything for her) is dating the person i hate the most, no one has ever made me as mad as he has. but shes happy so that makes me happy that she is 3.) i would call my dad, tell him how much i appreciate everything and tell him to tell my mom the same 4.) I tell everyone. I treat every day the same with the exception i would make day special in my own way. I would not be afraid. I have reached my biggest life goal, im happy with life, so if it ended now, no biggie. I did what i wanted. 5.) Trust. If i cannot love someone without trust, then the second best thing is just trust. 6.) I save the dog because its a living thing. I could never let anything living die. If i get fierd, so be it, move on with my life and get a new job (of course easier said than done) 7.) I would rather be hurt by the one i trust the most because the person who can love you the most can hurt you the most. 8.) Well, if i have feelings for them then shit id be like "NO WAI, I LIKE YOU TOO :D" but if i wasnt into them, id simply say "Im sorry, your an awesome person, but i see you as a friend." 9.) My sister. I was a quadruplet. i have one brother, and my two sisters that where all born as the same time as me. one of them, Angelica died. I would love to meet her. see what she would be like. 10.) yes because i would have someone that could actually understand me. Theres only one person like that. He is my best friend. 11.) It depends. If your in love with the person, you can truly have sex to show love however, you can just be horny and have sex for pleasure. 12.) I hate to be this way but id keep my job. However, i would offer to help the family however i can. 13.) I had to tell my best friend (the girl i mentioned before) how i felt about her bf because of past conflicts we have had for 4 years and still going. it was a bit hard but she accepted it. 14.) i do not love hem back 15.) my happiness. My life goal was to reach that. I found my way to it. It would be hard knowing i had to give that up. 16.) My second girlfriend. I notice at the time i didnt feel that way but i was a stupid teen :P wada expect XD? 17.) I wouldent change a thing. everything happen for a reason (IMO) 18.) yeah i would, i mean yeah they might be grimey, mabey i could put my shirt over there mouth, but shit, im here to help people, thats my purpose, so if i get a disease or not i fuffiled my purpose. 19.) Well, my grandma would be like "Nigga, i lived the gangsta lief drap me" (in all seriousness she would say drop me), so technically yeah i might drop her but ive thought of situations like this, if this where to ever happen i would use every ounce of strength and determination i have and pull both of them up. 20.) It depends. I like old fashioned things. Just most of the old fashoned ideas life styles dont exist anymore. 21.) I never expect anything, the last time i saw my best friend. 22.) True love, ive always wanted to feel actual love. 23.) Nothing. Im happy with my life, everything in it and everything that i have. There is nothing more that i want.

3. ChainBreak

   Date: Mon, Nov 25 2013 23:03:29

   1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? [B]Depends on what you mean by that. If you mean a love confession it's the first.[/B] 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? [B]When I lost my last table tennis match. I was so pissed I kicked the dividing wall in the hall and slightly strained my muscle. It went away fast though.[/B] 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? [B]Wtf has the origin or destination of the flight to do with the situation? Prolly my family and tell them I love them.[/B] 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid? [B]Probably wouldn't tell a lot of people since I really dislike people fussing over me. I would spend my days with my family or working on crazy physics theories. And yes prolly would get afraid.[/B] 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust. [B]Love = absolute trust for me so no real answer here.[/B] 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not? [B]I wouldn't even get to the situation since I'm never late for work and am mostly considered a very competent and fast worker. I would still save the dog and let my former boss kiss my ass.[/B] 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? [B]Using my answer for 5. that would be the same person.[/B] 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say? [B]Trying can't hurt, but I would have her agree on parting as peacefully as possible if that case would ever come to.[/B] 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not? [B]Yes. Because it was a great person.[/B] 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? [B]No[/B] 11. Does love = sex? [B]No[/B] 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not? [B]I would, because I can always get a job with a steady income if I just search and try. Having finished school basically means easy work for most people. Especially if you have the connections.[/B] 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? [B]If you're talking about love confession again I never have. I only ever had very fleeting relationships. Also I lacked time for a serious relationship for the last 3 years. And that's about the only time I think I would have been able to lead one.[/B] 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back? [B]The latter.[/B] 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose? [B]Sleep. Because without sleep I would be so mad at everything I would buy stuff for a hydrogen bomb and detonate it somewhere.[/B] 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? [B]I don't really remember who the last person was, but prolly a family member.[/B] 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why? [B]That one night when I went to club with some friends. It was horrible.[/B] 18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not? [B]No, because I wouldn't even know what to do since I never had a first aid course.[/B] 19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision? [B]I let myself fall and save the other two?[/B] 20. Are you old fashioned? [B]A bit.[/B] 21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? [B]I do that very often. There's no real reason most of the time I do something nice. I just do it because I feel like it.[/B] 22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why? [B]Stupid question. Doesn't deserve an answer.[/B] 23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be? [B]Gain every knowledge and the ability to use and share it with every person.[/B] 24. A bonus question I came up with while reading these questions. Quantity of life and quality of life. Do you value one over the other, if so, why? [B]Don't really understand this one. Imo less people leading a happier life is nicer than having more and less happy lifes though.[/B]

4. shoeman6

   Date: Mon, Nov 25 2013 23:58:34

   1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? [B]Looking into someones eyes and telling them how I feel.[/B] 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? [B]Can't remember being REALLY angry, I think it mightve been when my mom was nagging me during my grandmas funeral and I kind of broke down.. but I'd say more upset than angry.[/B] 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? [B]Amy, that I love her.[/B] 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid? [B]Yes, I don't know, think?, Yes.[/B] 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust. [B]Trust, Love is dependent upon trust.[/B] 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not? [B]No, it's a dog.[/B] 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? [B]They should be the same person.[/B] 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say? [B]Cool, not surprised, maybe we should stop fucking each other.[/B] 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not? [B]No, she had Alzheimers it was a bit of a relief. [/B] 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? [B]No.[/B] 11. Does love = sex? [B]No.[/B] 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not? [B]No, he's a lazy asshole and I've seen him slacking off at work.[/B] 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? [B]2 days ago, it was pretty difficult, a friend, stuff.[/B] 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back? [B]That I don't love them back.[/B] 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose? [B]My life, because it is everything to me.[/B] 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? [B]Yesterday, a stranger.[/B] 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why? [B]My math exam, because I know the answers now.[/B] 18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not? [B]No, because CPR only works when your heart stops beating... not for all cases of dying.[/B] 19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision? [B]My grandmothers hand, because she's already dead anyways.[/B] 20. Are you old fashioned? [B]Not sure what this question is asking. No, I live in the same time period as you.[/B] 21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? [B]Today.[/B] 22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why? [B]True love always guarantees a broken heart, it isn't true love without it. I would choose no love. Because love is the bane of humanity.[/B] 23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be? [B]For shit not to be fucked up.[/B] 24. A bonus question I came up with while reading these questions. Quantity of life and quality of life. Do you value one over the other, if so, why? [B]Quantity of life, with greater quantity comes greater possibility of greater quality. I want to share my life with others.[/B]

5. Enkronidus

   Date: Tue, Nov 26 2013 00:07:07

   [B]1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?[/B] - 'Looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel'. I usually find it difficult to express my true feelings, the feelings that come from my sub-conscious, or what I really want without me knowing. The error or self-lie, probably occurs from my stupidity or selfishness, it seems. =/ Also, my eyes are a lie, I can't really control them when I express feeling to someone. Usually, people tell me that my eyes express a different emotion when I tell them something. But the words I tell them are the truth, not what my eyes tell them. [B]2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?[/B] - Let's take it short; My mom thinks that I'm her doll. She has been making decisions for me, forcing me to wear what she finds for me, making me do what she wants. Sometimes, I even wonder if my mom knows who I actually are, what I like to eat, what I am capable of. It's actually some sort of a comfortable life, you know, having someone to take care of everything for you. But then, you realize that you actually missed out something in life because of the forbiddenness. Next year, I'm moving out. She won't have the rights to take control of me ever again. [B]3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?[/B] - I would call no one. Just sit down, close my eyes, judge myself of my own worthiness. [B] 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?[/B] - I would probably get ordained to the priesthood. Death is just the common end of the path to everyone. Useless to be afraid. [B]5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.[/B] - Love, because I don't even think I'm trustworthy even right now. Still live my life pretty good. [B]6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?[/B] - Depends on how wide/deep and dirty that canal is. I mean, I wouldn't jump down there cause I can't swim. I would help if there is something that I can do that does not risk my life. [B]7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?[/B] - The one I love the most doesn't have to be someone I trust the most too, right? So, let's go with that one. I would blame myself to death if I trusted someone and that person I trusted the most became a traitor. I don't like making mistakes like that. =/ To elaborate, people who I truly love can hurt me all they want, if that makes them feel better. I wouldn't mind as much. [B]8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?[/B] - I would fuck the shit outta her, then dumb her right away unless she's hot. [B]9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?[/B] - See, I'm not the one that fear death. I only consider which choice is the most beneficial to both sides, or sometimes, just my side. In this case, the first person I think of was my grandpa. 1 year of life is not too big compared to the happiness of everyone to see him again alive just for an hour, and he could teach a lot on different things, even just within an hour. He was a respectable man. [B]10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?[/B] - Yes. I'm awesome. I'm smart but not too serious, and I'm horny. We would make great friends. Especially if that supposed friend of mine was also a girl. Damn. [B]11. Does love = sex?[/B] - No? I love my parents and I don't want to have sex with them. I also have a few best friends who I have already classified as 'loves' [not in the gay way, but like bromance] But if you mean romantic love, then I guess so. :trollface: [B]12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?[/B] - That's his life to deal with. I'm sorry. The damage is too huge. [B]13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?[/B] - Matters related to question 2, to my parents. [B]14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?[/B] - I don't love them back. [B]15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?[/B] - Life. If you give up life, shit will happen. [B]16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?[/B] - My uncle. Casual words when conversation ends. But IF you mean when I really mean it: My best friend is some sort of a playboy. He ended up having a crush on a girl whom I also had a crush on. I called him on LINE and we had a talk. I throw pretty long and rough lines, but rather polite at him. He was very pretty shocked to what I said. [What I said was actually well-prepared. I had it written in a script, so I just kind read it off to him right away.] The last part was that 'I loved you so much, almost already in a gay way but not there yet, just don't disappoint me, alright?.' For what I actually said to him, I'd rather not disclose it. It was quite poetic and subtly harmful to feelings. [B]17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?[/B] - Oh, my life was perfect last month. Too bad. [B]18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?[/B] - A doctor told me he has had like 10 patients that he had to perform CPR. Only 2 of his patients survived after going through CPR. So, it's not worth it. =/ I don't even know how to do it. [B]19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?[/B] - If I really have to pick one. I'd save my grandma, because she is my grandma. [B]20. Are you old fashioned?[/B] - I am. I like MILF too. #k [B]21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?[/B] - Let me tell you what, freebies don't exist in my dictionary. Invest in something and not wanting anything in return? That sounds way too ridiculous, man. That definitely ruins the business. [B]22. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?[/B] - Never loved at all. Everything is just an illusion. You can't take anything with you when you die anyways. Only your lifeless energy. [B]23. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?[/B] - I have heard random rumors that wishing for something and let others hear it will ruin it. So, I'm not telling you. But it is something very big. [B]24. A bonus question I came up with while reading these questions. Quantity of life and quality of life. Do you value one over the other, if so, why?[/B] - Neither. Life is an illusion. The only one real thing is 'the state between existence and non-existence'.

6. SiL

   Date: Tue, Nov 26 2013 07:26:29

   much trubble

7. Reason

   Date: Tue, Nov 26 2013 13:10:36

   1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? [COLOR="red"]when i tell them. its much harder for me to confess feelings than to accept someone else's[/COLOR] 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? [COLOR="red"]it was probably at my parents for contradicting themselves in some way. i dont really stay mad at them, but it still effects how i feel about them[/COLOR] 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? [COLOR="red"]my ex gf. tell her that i regret that i couldnt make things work and now ill never get the chance to because ill be dead. i dont actually feel that way, it would probably just really fuck her up.[/COLOR] 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid? [COLOR="red"]i think not telling anyone would be easier on them, but telling them would make your actions more understandable. i would probably explore as much of the world as i can and see what there is to see. maybe make some writings in the mean time. i would be afraid...[/COLOR] 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust. [COLOR="red"]well trust is a good thing since it means truth, but if i cant have love then its not worth it.[/COLOR] 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not? [COLOR="red"]save the dog. we get too caught up in the idea that our life's well being is more important than anything else.[/COLOR] 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? [COLOR="red"]the one that i love the most. it happens to plenty of people and they get over it. also if the person you love the most isnt the person you trust the most then there is a problem[/COLOR] 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say? [COLOR="red"]the person to spend your life with is usually your best friend... i would think i could give it a shot...[/COLOR] 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not? [COLOR="red"]that all depends... the last person i knew to die was suffering during the last of his life. i think he would have wanted to die before he got weak.[/COLOR] 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? [COLOR="red"]i think so... i would get all the references to the jokes i make... plus i could have unconditional sex with myself then debate with myself whether its gay or masturbation.[/COLOR] 11. Does love = sex? [COLOR="red"]thats a big NO[/COLOR] 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not? [COLOR="red"]i think i wouldnt do it, but i would try to help the coworker out in some way. maybe lend them money or help them find a new job.[/COLOR] 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? [COLOR="red"]tbh i dont remember at all. i think im usually honest about those things.[/COLOR] 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back? [COLOR="red"]its harder to tell them that i love them but only if i dont know if they love me.[/COLOR] 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose? [COLOR="red"]hard to answer... probably my free thought. if i cant think then i shouldnt live.[/COLOR] 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? [COLOR="red"]my friend. i havent seen her in a while and i wanted to tell her that i love her and miss her.[/COLOR] 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why? [COLOR="red"]really dont know.[/COLOR] 18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not? [COLOR="red"]i dont know cpr but i would give it to a homeless person if they needed it. they are still a person and deserve life.[/COLOR] 19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision? [COLOR="red"]grandma duh. ok, for 1, i only have one grandmother left and shes a real bitch plus a fatty. i cannot hold onto 360 lb with one hand. my body would be telling me "fuck that, take the baby yo". plus young people are important to the future. old people are never as relevant[/COLOR] 20. Are you old fashioned? [COLOR="red"]cannot be determined.[/COLOR] 21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? [COLOR="red"]idk. i think i do that stuff every day... but little things. you know?[/COLOR] 22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why? [COLOR="red"]true love so i have an idea to jack off to. jkjk. true love because its an experience that everyone needs to have.[/COLOR] 23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be? [COLOR="red"]not sure. i dont think im ready to make that type of decision [/COLOR] 24. A bonus question I came up with while reading these questions. Quantity of life and quality of life. Do you value one over the other, if so, why? [COLOR="red"]quality probably. i prefer a few important things rather than many not so important things.[/COLOR]

8. Panda Hugs

   Date: Thu, Nov 28 2013 06:46:29

   1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? [B]Looking into someone elses eyes when I am telling them how I feel. I love to help people with there problems, and often people do come to me for advice and shit. I am just so uncomfortable when the table is turned though.[/B] 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way? [B]I really don't get angry often. Usually I just skip past being angry and go straight to just being tired of the situation. That was because my friend is like a broken record, will come to me for advice about the same thing, then bash on the advice I give, ignore it, and come back the next day. I just get tired. [/B] 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? [B]I would make it to my brother. Growing up we never really got along. He was several years older than me and just wanted to get away from hsi younger sister, and I was niave and wanted to hang out with the 'cool' kids and get away from my brothers shadow he cast on me. We were never really close adn that is something I wish we had, so I would tell him that, and tell him to tell mom and dad that even though I am not the eprfect daughter and that I don't listen, adn that I fight them on just about everything, how much I love them. How I understand how much they sacrificed for my brother and I when we were growing up[/B]. 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid? [B]I would be afraid, but at the same time it wouldn't change much about how I live. We all die someday, and I would just be sad that my day came sooner than what I had planned, then again.. I guess it usually does. I would spend my last days though doing whatever makes me happy. [/B] 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust. [B]Love. I haven't experienced love first hand, but I would like to.[/B] 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not? [B]Hell yeah I would save it. I can get another job. The dog can't get another life. [/B] 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? [B]The one I love the most. I don't trust often, adn when i do, that is saying a lot. I would hate to be betrayed by them.[/B] 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say? [B]Depends on if I am single or not. If I am not dating anyone, I would say I wasn't sure how we would work, but we could always try, but I wouldnt risk our friendship on it. If I was, then I am dating them for a reasona nd I am going to be loyal tothem, and just friendzone my friend[/B]. 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not? [B]I would... Because the last person I know who died was my grandma, and it hit my dad hard. I would give her and my dad one hour so that he could get some closure, say goodbye.[/B] 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend? [B]I like to think so[/B]. 11. Does love = sex? [B]...No. If you mean romantic love, still no. It is just a perk.[/B] 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not? [B]No. I have bills to pay too and while I sympathize for him but I am not going to ruin my life to make his better. He can go and work to make it better for himself, himself. [/B] 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person? [B]I tell people how I feel honestly all the time. I am very blunt, which can sometimes make me come across as a bitch. I dont enjoy people sugar coating things for me so I don't do it for them.[/B] 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite/same sex, you love them or that you do not love them back? [B]That I don't love them back. if they don't like me is whatever. I'll move on right then and there.[/B] 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose? [B]Fat. Because those extra pounds just dont get the fuck off.[/B] 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you? [B]Tonight before bed, my mom and dad.[/B] 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why? [B]There isn't. I don't dwell on what I have done, I just focus on doing.[/B] 18. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not? [B]I would. Mouth to mouth is no longer a certified nessesity to CPR.[/B] 19.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision? [B]I would let go of my grandmother. The child will hopefully have a long life to live, my grandmother had already lived hers.[/B] 20. Are you old fashioned? [B]In some ways.[/B] 21. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it? [B]All the time. It isn't 'nice' if you are expecting something, it is manipulation.[/B] 22.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why? [B]True love. Better to of loved and lost than never to of loved at all.[/B] 23.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be? [B]It would to be to make the difference I want to make. Mold my life into the life I want. What that is, secret. :P[/B] 24. A bonus question I came up with while reading these questions. Quantity of life and quality of life. Do you value one over the other, if so, why? [B]Quantity. I will take the bad with the good. [/B]